Several months ago, when Mr. HapaNom and I were driving from the East Coast to our new home in the Bay Area, we stopped in Southern California to see my dad’s side of the family. We stayed with my aunt and uncle and before we shoved off to continue on our journey, my aunt hosted a lunch for us with the rest of the CA family invited. My aunt set out a table full of various veggies, grilled meats, sauces, and several large bowls of white and brown rice. It was brilliant! Everyone could pick and choose exactly what they wanted!
Pick Your Starch
Pick Your Protein
Pick Your Toppings
Pick Your Sauce
This is obviously perfect for family get-togethers, but it also works for sports gatherings, holiday parties, or just pick and choose what you want! Think of all of the combinations you and your guests will have! Whether you have a vegetarian, someone on a gluten-free diet, or a meatlover – Build Your Own Bowl has got you covered. Just as a heads-up if you’re party planning – the pork and the chicken are marinated for 2 hours to overnight. Happy eating!
- Prepare the ingredients according to package directions.
- Grilled Pork and Chicken
- 1 pound boneless pork chop
- 1 pound boneless, skinless chicken
- 12 scallions, white parts only – chopped and muddled (save the green parts for your toppings)
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- ½ cup dark brown sugar
- 4 tablespoons fish sauce
- 2 tablespoons soy sauce
- ½ teaspoon molasses
- 2 tablespoons toasted sesame oil
- 2 teaspoons black pepper
- Sesame Crusted Tofu:
- ½ cup soy sauce
- ¼ cup rice vinegar
- ¼ cup mirin
- 2 teaspoon toasted sesame oil
- 20 ounces ultra firm tofu*
- 1 egg
- ½ cup panko
- ¼ cup white sesame seeds
- ¼ cup black sesame seeds
- vegetable oil for cooking
- Grilled Pork and Chicken
- Pound the meat out to a ¼ inch thickness and cut into vertical strips to thread on skewers. To make the marinade – add the muddled scallions, garlic, sugar, fish sauce, soy sauce, molasses, sesame oil, and black pepper to a mixing bowl. Stir to combine. Divide the marinade into two large zip-top bag and add the pork to one and the chicken to the other. Seal the bag and turn to coat. Refrigerate and allow to marinate for 2 hours to overnight.
- Soak the bamboo skewers for 15 minutes. Preheat the grill to high heat. Thread the meat onto the skewers, working the skewer in and out of the meat, down the center. Once the grill is ready, oil the grates with vegetable oil. Place the meat directly over the flames and cook for approximately 7 - 10 minutes, turning frequently until the meat is cooked through with a bit of char. If you would like to use the oven instead, place the meat on a baking sheet and cook under the broiler for 4 -5 minutes per side, or until cooked through.
- Sesame Crusted Tofu
- Using a clean tea towel, firmly press the block of tofu to remove any excess moisture. Slice the tofu to ½ an inch in thickness, then slice to a manageable width (approximately 2-3 inches wide).
- To make the marinade, mix the soy sauce, rice vinegar, mirin, and sesame oil in a large zip-top bag. Add the tofu slices, close the bag, and gently move the tofu around to coat. Allow to marinate for at least 30 minutes, periodically turning the bag to coat all sides of the tofu.
- Remove the tofu from the marinade and remove the excess moisture by pressing each piece firmly between several paper towels.
- To set up your dipping station, beat one egg with 1 tablespoon of water in a bowl. In a separate bowl, add the panko and sesame seeds – stir well.
- Working with one slice at a time, dip the tofu in the egg mixture, being sure to coat the entire piece. Then transfer the tofu to the panko-sesame mixture, turning and pressing to coat. Transfer the sesame crusted slices to a large dish and momentarily set aside.
- Over medium-high heat, add enough oil to cover the bottom of a heavy-bottomed skillet. Once hot, add the tofu slices in batches. Cook for 2-3 minutes per side, or until golden-brown. Lift the tofu out of the skillet and allow them to cool on a plate lined with a few paper towels.
- Once cool enough to handle, slice each tofu piece into bite-sized pieces.
- 4 cups lettuce, cut into strips
- 4 cups cucumbers, thinly sliced
- 4 cups bean sprouts
- 4 cups cilantro
- do chua
- 6 jalapeños, sliced
- ½ cup peanuts, roughly chopped
- Lime-Fish Sauce
- 4 tablespoons fresh lime juice
- 2 tablespoons fish sauce
- 2 teaspoons mirin
- 2 tablespoons scallions, sliced
- Ponzu-Ginger Sauce (adapted from Serious Eats)
- 8 tablespoons ponzu
- 4 tablespoons scallions, sliced
- 4 teaspoon grated ginger
- 4 teaspoons mirin
- 2 teaspoons toasted sesame oil
- 1 teaspoon fresh lime juice
- Peanut Sauce
- 4 Thai chiles
- 1½ tablespoons galangal paste*
- 1½ tablespoons thinly sliced lemongrass – tough exterior removed, cut from the bulb
- 5 Thai basil leaves*, fresh
- 2 tablespoons shallot, thinly sliced
- 4 cloves garlic
- 1 teaspoon shrimp paste*
- ¼ cup white sesame seeds, toasted
- ¼ cup dry roasted peanut
- 1 cup coconut milk, shaken
- 1 tablespoon red curry paste
- ¼ cup sugar
- 2 tablespoons fish sauce
- ¼ cup fresh orange juice
- 2 tablespoons fresh lime juice
- Cilantro-Lime Sauce
- Combine all of the ingredients in a small bowl and set aside until ready to use.
- Ponzu-Ginger Sauce
- Combine all of the ingredients in a small bowl and set aside until ready to use.
- Peanut Sauce
- In a food processor, puree the Thai chiles, galangal, lemongrass, Thai basil, shallot, garlic, and shrimp paste. If you would like a smoother sauce, finish by using a mortar and pestle, although this is not necessary. Set the ingredients aside in a bowl separate from the food processor.
- Wipe out the bowl of the food processor and add the toasted sesame seeds and dry roasted peanuts. Puree until creamy.
- In a large pan over medium heat, sauté the Thai chili puree and the coconut milk. Stir constantly until fully incorporated. Then add the sesame seed and peanut mixture. Finally, add the red curry paste, sugar, fish sauce, orange juice, lime juice, and stir well. Add water a tablespoon at a time to create your desired consistency. Set aside and allow to cool to room temperature.
*Galangal – there is really no good substitute for galangal, so a substitution should be your last resort. There are some that say that there is NO substitute for galangal, but lets be realistic – if you’re in an area that does not carry this exotic root, then throwing out the likes of that ingredient from the recipe entirely is a bit crazy…in my opinion. That said, first try the international aisle of your local grocery store or Asian food store. IF galangal is nowhere to be found, use the equivalent measurement of minced ginger with a pinch of mace and pepper.
* Thai basil leaves – try a farmers market, one of those high-end grocery stores, or Asian food store. If you cannot find Thai basil, you may substitute sweet basil – just add a few more leaves to the recipe as Thai basil is stronger and spicier than traditional basil.
*Shrimp paste – I have only seen this ingredient in International/Asian markets. However, if you cannot find shrimp paste, simply add the equal measurement in fish sauce. Most local grocery stores with an international aisle will carry fish sauce. However, in a pinch you may substitute soy sauce – although, the dish may taste a bit weak.
Place everything into bowls and set out on the table. Serve with sliced limes and Sriracha. Enjoy!
Christianne says
Thanks! We wanted to do rice bowls for dinner club, and this was exactly what I needed.
hapagirl says
That’s great, Christianne! I’m so glad this worked for your dinner club 🙂
wendy says
Just checking on the cilantro needed for the lime cilantro sauce … any amount you recommend?
hapagirl says
Hi Wendy. My apologies, I mistitled the sauce – can’t believe I missed that! It should be ‘Lime-Fish Sauce’. I frequently make the same sauce using cilantro instead of the scallions (probably why I mistitled it in the first place) 🙂 If you would like to use cilantro, just do an equal substitution of the scallions.
Fairchild says
Why didn’t we think about this kind of fun with food years ago. It could have stunted my waistline 🙂
Suzie
hapagirl says
Thanks so much! It certainly is fun when everyone can make their own… then everyone is happy 🙂
FoodGeekGraze says
there is nothing i tail wag over more than a 101-type post. push asian flavor profiles into the bundle and i am mad with anticipation. i am also all about how you applied handwriting to the photos with your marker. stylish and cool and then some. the sauce and protein recipes are 5star level… i dig how you are not fish sauce shy. your peanut sauce construct is making me experience a brain melt (two citrus juices and belacan? wow! yes, yes, yes please). do tell how much ginger you suggest in your ginger ponzu sauce please 🙂 i have no idea who or what or when or where i am going to do this, but i soooooo need to have this party you are pushing (idea level einstein). seriously, seriously standing ovation worthy, kathleen. i am such a rabid fan over your works.
hapagirl says
Aw… thank you my dear. Your comments always make me smile 🙂 I can’t believe I forgot the ginger in the ginger-ponzu sauce – big duh! It’s 4 teaspoons, grated – I went ahead and updated. Thanks for catching that!
hipfoodiemom says
what a GREAT post!!!! I love this!
Chrissie says
Amazing! I could eat this every day! Thank you for the wonderful recipe. I made the chicken in my broiler with the ponzu sauce. Added a some mint. Just delicious.
hapagirl says
That’s wonderful, Chrissie! I’m so glad you enjoyed it!
Toni | 2 Aussie Travellers says
What a great idea for a crowd and that sesame crusted tofu is definitely going on the must try list
hapagirl says
Thanks so much, Toni! The sesame crusted tofu is on regular rotation in my house – even my meat-loving friends love it 🙂
Kelley @ Chef Savvy says
Oh my gosh I love this idea!! So creative! I think I would have a super hard time choosing between all of your amazing options!
hapagirl says
Thanks, Kelley! I ended up making one giant bowl with everything! 😉
Mira says
Love meal setups like this – great choices Kathleen! Everything looks great! Need to try the sesame crusted tofu !
Helen @ Scrummy Lane says
Awww, Kathleen, this is an Ah -MAZING idea! It’s a fabulous idea for when you’re having guests over, but I really like the idea of a scaled-down version just for myself, too! 🙂
Bam's Kitchen says
What a fun party idea! I think I would want a little of everything or maybe just make myself 3 bowls… well how else would I get to try 3 delicious sauces… okay just give me one gigantic bowl. Just pinned!
hapagirl says
Ha! Yes, one gigantic bowl would certainly do! Have a great week my dear.
jesusan says
This is an absolutely brilliant concept. I’ve been considering how to deal with food if my sister and her husband come to visit; he’s vegetarian, she is sort of, and we are not. So this would please everybody. Thanks for posting it.
hapagirl says
Thanks so much, Susan! It’s a great way to please a wide range of people. Hope you have a great weekend!
Cheyanne @ No Spoon Necessary says
Bowl anything rocks my world, but a build your own bowl bar? Genius, girlfriend!! Love all the proteins, carb, veggie and sauce options! I could build a variety of bowls and eat this for days! Pinned! Cheers, doll! XO
hapagirl says
Thanks girl! My husband and I were the ‘party’ for this post so we ate this for several days – but it was leftovers that changed everyday with the various combinations we created. So in a way it didn’t feel like we were eating leftovers 🙂
nagimaehashi says
YES!! This is what I do!! Well, to be honest, I usually only have one protein but the concept is the same. I love it!! I really like this idea of putting out even a bigger selection for larger groups. I’ve never done that before, this is fabulous! Pinning!
hapagirl says
I love when people set out a food bar! Then I can make things just how I like them… not that I’m picky or anything 😉
Mon Petit Four (@byMonPetitFour) says
I LOVE this idea Kathleen! It’s always so fun when you and your guests can personalize and customize your meals to your own taste. All of these choices look so so yummy! Thanks for sharing the idea and recipes! <3
hapagirl says
Thank you my dear. I know it’s only September, but the holidays always sneak up on me. I figured this would fitting for those large family gatherings 🙂
Amy | Club Narwhal says
Love this idea, Kathleen! I’m all for build-your-own parties and the Asian spin is perfect.
hapagirl says
Thank you, Amy! Parties always end up around the food – I figured why not make it fun 🙂
annie@ciaochowbambina says
Goodness! How do you choose? Sometimes I have trouble when everything looks so good… This is brilliant – I just might have to go in for seconds, though! Gorgeous post! Thank you!
hapagirl says
Ha! I know what mean. I’m always that person who ends up with food cascading over the plate/bowl because I’ve over-stuffed on all of the choices (you should see me at the salad bar) 😛
Janette@culinaryginger says
This is a fabulous way to eat. Everything looks so good I’d have to try a bit of everything.
hapagirl says
Thinking back on it, I should have photographed the bowl I made for myself. I would have called it ‘the kitchen sink’ because I put EVERYTHING in it – it was a little ridiculous 😉
Anu-My Ginger Garlic Kitchen says
Oh wow! These DIY bowls looks AH-MAZING. This such a genius idea, Kathleen. Loving all these awesome bowls! Can’t wait to try my own! 🙂
hapagirl says
Thank you my dear. This is a fun post to make 🙂
Cathleen @ A Taste of Madness says
I love this! It’s like Subway, but actually healthy! Yum!
hapagirl says
Yes! And no creepy spokesperson either 😉
Jessica @ Sweetest Menu says
Wow! I think perhaps you need to open your own lunch place – I’d be down there everyday! I love these bowls!
hapagirl says
Ha! Thanks so much Jessica! That would be pretty sweet! My husband mentioned a food truck – but I would be a complete hazard on the road driving one of those around 😛